In this modern day, house maids have become part of many family life and a whole lots of women are making serious mistakes the way they handle them.
Some are losing their marriages because of this little mistake. Remember the mistake of Sarah in the Bible.
You need to get divine wisdom to handle them; this is what I have put together as rules for handling house maids:
RULE 1: NO MEAT FOR THE HUNTER
Never employ an house maid if you cannot really trust your husband with opposite sex or if he has history of sexual infidelity. An adult house keeper will be better who will come to your house in the morning and go in the night, please don't employ your ‘Hagar’ dear sister Sarah.
RULE 2: BEAUTY CONTEST
Never employ a house maid that is more beautiful than you, she may turn out to be your nemesis and take your husband from you. Don't employ somebody that will engage you in beauty contest.
RULE 3: BE IN CHARGE
Never employ house maid you cannot control, two drivers should not be in the same car.
RULE 4: NO NEED, NO MAID
Please my sister, don't go for a house maid if you don't really need one. Buckle up and do your work, the problem of maids at times is bigger than the support they give at home. Won't it be better to take your baby to crèche than leave him or her with a maid that will man-handle the baby and even snatch your husband? Hello men, please help your wife at home to raise your children; if you do it together, there may not be the need for a maid. Sir, supporting your wife at home will not remove "MR" from your name, it only make you a real man.
RULE 5: TIME TO FIRE
If your house maid suddenly become uncontrollable, stubborn and disobedient to you, while your husband see nothing wrong in it,fighting or even beating you because of the girl.
Be very observant, there is something fishy under your roof. If you lose control of your maid she must gooooo!
RULE 6: COVER-UP
Don’t ever allow your house maid to wear see-through and s*xy dresses in your house. Somebody else (your husband) may begin to see through her in your absence.
RULE 7: FULLY KITTED
Don't ever permit your maid to be tying towel around the house for hours just because she want to go and take her bath, it is tempting. Help your husband, don't ever allow this. In fact, your blood sister must not even be permitted to do so. Any lady in your house must always be well dressed if they are not in their room. No spaghetti, tying of wrapper without blouse, some girls are so careless that they wear pant and bra around the house. Hey! Sister, the house is yours not theirs, don't permit them to destroy it. Every lady around you must be fully dressed in your house, if they must wear night dresses it must be in their rooms, protect the territorial integrity of your home, failure to do this is one major mistake most wives do make at home, don't lose your husband to strange women that are close to you.
RULE 8: AVOID MATURE TROUBLE.
Don't employ fully grown up, developed, breasted house maid, she may become a fully grown up and developed trouble. DONT permit it.
RULE 9: NO ROOM, NO MAID.
Never employ a maid if you don't have a separate room where you are going to put her. Making your maid to sleep in the sitting room can bring doom into that home, as she sleeps carelessly, enticing your husband who may accidentally see her as she sleeps and begin to pursue her.
RULE 10: NO BOY, IF GIRLS
Don't ever employ a house boy if you have only girls as children. Experience has shown that a whole lots of little girls are been deflowered by their mother’s house help. Get female house help, if you have only girls.
RULE 11: NO GIRL, IF BOYS.
Likewise, if all your kids are male, don't employ female house maid. There are lots of cases where house maids s*xually molest the boys of their madams. Rather, get a house boy.
RULE 12: NO YOU IN HER
Don't give your old dresses that your husband likes on you to your maid, lest your husband begin to see you in her. Those clothes that look beautiful and may-be sexy on you that made your husband to fall for you several times SHOULD NEVER be given to your maid. Don't make your husband feel that there is no difference between the two of you and get carried away as he sees you in her.
RULE 13: NO HARSH TREATMENT
A young house maid seduced her madam’s husband to bed and nearly took over the house. When she was interrogated; she said, that is her own way of dealing with her madam who had been so cruel to her.
Another maid ran into the house of one of their neighbors just to escape the man of the house who insisted on sleeping with her. She told the neighbor what happened and that she will never do that kind of thing with “Oga” because madam has been so good to her, she later left that house voluntarily losing her job. She said, “I will never hurt that good woman."
What is the difference between the two stories? One woman was cruel and lost her husband and another one was good and saved her marriage.
Wives are fond of being so cruel and harsh to their maids, most of the time they do treat them with disdain, shouting on them, punishing them, beating them and treating them without honor.
If you must get a maid, learn to treat her with honor, a maid you treat badly has many ways of fighting back. One of them is punishing your children or molesting them sexually behind you. The maid you maltreated can also decide to seduce your husband to bed, in extreme cases; maids are known to have poisoned the family of their employers.
By all means, try to be good to your maid, you may be doing yourself a great favor. Always remember that you are only privileged to be the wife in that house.
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