Singles Ladies: 6 Things to do when the guy of your dreams proposes to your best friend

Here are a few things you can do if you fall into the situation where the guy you have had a crush on since you were a kid decides to get married to your best friend.


 Place value on yourself
It is the way you view yourself that others would. I don’t care if you are dark in complexion, light, tall or dark, ugly or beautiful, apart from the fact that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

I have seen ugly guys leave a party with the most beautiful girls because of the value they put on themselves.

The fact that he has proposed to someone else does not mean something is wrong with you. So, no matter what, still place value on yourself.

Maintain a joyful attitude
When shit is happening in your world, and you can still smile and maintain a joyful attitude, there certainly is something attractive about it.
Crying and looking ugly is not going to solve it, why not smile and be happy.
Who knows? Maybe when you maintain a joyful attitude, you would get a solution to your problem.

Try to maintain a joyful attitude

Don’t compare yourself with others
There are some people whose smiling faces are perfect at disguising their sorrows. So don’t compare yourself with someone else
Most importantly, don’t think others are better than you are, because if they are, there blood was supposed to be used on the cross of Calvary to atone for your sins.

Get a purpose for your life
Get a life. Don’t be idle. An idle hand is the devil’s workshop. Even if you finish doing all your chores and there is nothing else to do, rearrange your room or join a charity organisation.

Try to be happy
I know it won’t be easy since it is likely you would see them most of the time, but being sad and moody is only going to turn you into an old, miserable woman.
Who knows, maybe in the process of smiling and being happy, your own mister right would locate you.

 Let it go
That is the most important thing. Obviously he has made his choice. You were not his choice. What do you intend to do about that? Punish his wife or hold a secret grudge towards them? Trust me. Those are not healthy. Let it go. Move on with your life.